Telling your mother.

Do you still call your mother when you book a role?

Sharing your success is proper. 

But, as a professional can you develop the strength to carry on without validation other than your own good work?

When you were a kid you’d be thrilled to tell your mom about anything good you’d done. You were proud. 

As we grow and mature certain relationships change naturally. Joining the adults in your family and friends on their own level and taking your place alongside them is natural. Equals.

In some families being an actor isn’t considered as worthy as being a teacher, bus driver, electrician or engineer. You might feel pressure to show them you’re successful. Let them have their own views and you have yours.

Take your place.

Being ecstatic when you book a role is euphoria and her cousin is depression. Two evil cousins. Better you don’t invite either of them to dinner.

Take the high road.

The movie system is a tough one, as you know, and you’re trying not to live or die with every booking.

Point isn’t never to share any good news with your mother. Of course not. 

Consider if doing it is filling you or draining you.